Thursday, October 29, 2009
A Disscussion of the South Korean Biases towards foreigners
http://blog.esldaily.org/2009/07/14/aids-in-korea.aspx
How To Succeed In Love And Relationship
So many men approach me saying something like "I am interested!" But the look on their face shows otherwise... They do not get clear about what they want or do not. Its important to know what you really can not tolerate in a partner. You should Make a list of your "don't wants" and then cut it down to the 5-10 most important. I don't have a positive outlook on a date if that person is always looking at the floor, not at you when talking and there seems to be no joy for them in life... What happens to humor and that little smile that will say a lot to me about who you are? Humor and a smile also shows me that joy won't be a problem if involved in a relationship with me.
I have come to learn that positive begets positive, and in a world that seams so negative, and morals paramount to a plan B, I choose the humorous and smiley guy any day of the week or month. I have learned that to look beyond the looks and to look at the big picture is so important. People change as life goes on you know. I have been married for 15 years and what I looked for was someone that was truly faithful and had a sense of humor. Someone who made me laugh. It has been a wonderful 15 years and I hope for many more to come.
Its good manners to look at a person when you are being spoken to, yet a lot of honest and loving persons prefer to avoid eye contact. It's good for a man and woman who are in love to look unto each other's eyes so that each can know the internal feelings of the other concerning the relationship and also each can make a correct judgment on what type of a person he/she is.
How about my friend who says she is in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about her and always putting her down, No matter what he does for this girl, nothing is ever good enough for her. And he tries so hard to please her. What is he doing so wrong to deserve all of this!! Sometimes it really hurts. Try something new. You know the best way to have things stay the same is to never do anything different. Vary your daily routine, just to keep yourself awake. Shake yourself up and notice what happens. Keep yourself open to chance opportunities, and then take advantage of them. One thing is for sure, there are people who will never get satisfied with what they have. you will hear them complaining about the size of their shoes as much as they complain about size of the coins in their pockets.
Its imperative to learn the art of showing a positive attitude toward life. This really draws attention both to yourself and your friends. I went out one day with a guy my age, and all the time i was enjoying my drink, this fool was trying to hit on the twenty one year old standing next to me. Of course if you love yourself you don't need anyone else to. For me, this was so obvious, i did not ask any questions. Do you know why i did not? Because this jerk did not have any answer. I hit him hard on the face and told him to forget.
If you liked my advice you'll want to check out my book:
www.tofindadate.com
I have come to learn that positive begets positive, and in a world that seams so negative, and morals paramount to a plan B, I choose the humorous and smiley guy any day of the week or month. I have learned that to look beyond the looks and to look at the big picture is so important. People change as life goes on you know. I have been married for 15 years and what I looked for was someone that was truly faithful and had a sense of humor. Someone who made me laugh. It has been a wonderful 15 years and I hope for many more to come.
Its good manners to look at a person when you are being spoken to, yet a lot of honest and loving persons prefer to avoid eye contact. It's good for a man and woman who are in love to look unto each other's eyes so that each can know the internal feelings of the other concerning the relationship and also each can make a correct judgment on what type of a person he/she is.
How about my friend who says she is in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about her and always putting her down, No matter what he does for this girl, nothing is ever good enough for her. And he tries so hard to please her. What is he doing so wrong to deserve all of this!! Sometimes it really hurts. Try something new. You know the best way to have things stay the same is to never do anything different. Vary your daily routine, just to keep yourself awake. Shake yourself up and notice what happens. Keep yourself open to chance opportunities, and then take advantage of them. One thing is for sure, there are people who will never get satisfied with what they have. you will hear them complaining about the size of their shoes as much as they complain about size of the coins in their pockets.
Its imperative to learn the art of showing a positive attitude toward life. This really draws attention both to yourself and your friends. I went out one day with a guy my age, and all the time i was enjoying my drink, this fool was trying to hit on the twenty one year old standing next to me. Of course if you love yourself you don't need anyone else to. For me, this was so obvious, i did not ask any questions. Do you know why i did not? Because this jerk did not have any answer. I hit him hard on the face and told him to forget.
If you liked my advice you'll want to check out my book:
www.tofindadate.com
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Successful Dating Strategies - How to Date and how not to Date
If you are single, you will know how difficult it is to find advice about dating and being single. We'd all love to meet our perfect soulmate. So often so-called dating experts (who are usually married) astound us with obvious wisdom but I am sure you get the feeling their point of view isn't always too realistic. You know, being single can be a tough and lonely whatever your age, and every now and again it would be good to get some real inspiration from other single people.
If you are new to the dating scene, a regular or are just simply wanting to meet someone new there should always be time for top dating tips, advice, information and things to consider. The truth is there are no magic formulas or potions and no cunning ways of trapping Mr or Miss right. But there are some valid facts that you should take into consideration along the way.
1. Make sure you are really ready to enter the dating game. Have some idea about what it is you are hoping to achieve. Also be prepared for some disappointments along the way, however don't let this affect the bigger picture.
2. Get your image right, don't go over the top, you still want to look like yourself. Don't try too hard either, but remember people do appreciate other peoples appearances.
3. Think about your dating goals and timescales. Be honest to yourself, if you see yourself married in two years, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back about dating, then be honest with those you may date.
4. Be confident. Do all those little things that will boost your confidence levels. Don't talk about adult matters or sex toys on your first date. The other person will respect you more in the long run if you dont bring up this 'touchy' issue.
5. Don't aim too low but do aim realistically. Be prepared and realistic about your chances. Dating is not just based on your personality but on the whole package you present to others.
6. Think about where you are going to meet new people. Join drama groups or a gymnasium, anything where you are likely to meet potential partners and the kind of people you are looking to meet.
7. If it's not going well, then don't be afraid to take time out from dating. Take stock and maybe re-evaluate. Keep your optimism high and try again.
8. Remember you're not going to necessarily meet your soulmate on your first date. So enjoy dating for what it is, meeting new people and even making new friends as you go.
9. Never make yourself too available. People still like the thrill of the chase when dating. The longer someone is made to chase you and fall for you, the more likely it is that love is going to blossom.
10. Most importantly, enjoy yourself. It will add a new dimension to your life. Dating will let you meet a variety of people who you wouldn't necessarily thought you'd get along with, or have anything in common with. Whether or not anything more develops from dating, think of it as another of those little life experiences.
If you are new to the dating scene, a regular or are just simply wanting to meet someone new there should always be time for top dating tips, advice, information and things to consider. The truth is there are no magic formulas or potions and no cunning ways of trapping Mr or Miss right. But there are some valid facts that you should take into consideration along the way.
1. Make sure you are really ready to enter the dating game. Have some idea about what it is you are hoping to achieve. Also be prepared for some disappointments along the way, however don't let this affect the bigger picture.
2. Get your image right, don't go over the top, you still want to look like yourself. Don't try too hard either, but remember people do appreciate other peoples appearances.
3. Think about your dating goals and timescales. Be honest to yourself, if you see yourself married in two years, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back about dating, then be honest with those you may date.
4. Be confident. Do all those little things that will boost your confidence levels. Don't talk about adult matters or sex toys on your first date. The other person will respect you more in the long run if you dont bring up this 'touchy' issue.
5. Don't aim too low but do aim realistically. Be prepared and realistic about your chances. Dating is not just based on your personality but on the whole package you present to others.
6. Think about where you are going to meet new people. Join drama groups or a gymnasium, anything where you are likely to meet potential partners and the kind of people you are looking to meet.
7. If it's not going well, then don't be afraid to take time out from dating. Take stock and maybe re-evaluate. Keep your optimism high and try again.
8. Remember you're not going to necessarily meet your soulmate on your first date. So enjoy dating for what it is, meeting new people and even making new friends as you go.
9. Never make yourself too available. People still like the thrill of the chase when dating. The longer someone is made to chase you and fall for you, the more likely it is that love is going to blossom.
10. Most importantly, enjoy yourself. It will add a new dimension to your life. Dating will let you meet a variety of people who you wouldn't necessarily thought you'd get along with, or have anything in common with. Whether or not anything more develops from dating, think of it as another of those little life experiences.
Currently listening to:
Artist:Snow
Album: Two Hands Clapping.
Songs:
1. Black N' Snow
2. Stay Ballin
3. That's My Life
4. Missing You
5. Whass up
6. Pride(Interlude)
7. Legal (feat. Alex Jellee stone)
8. Missing You
9. Whisper of Truth
10. Mistaken Identity (feat Chris Black)
11. Lonely Song (feat. Alex Metcalf)
12. Biological (feat. Danny p.)
13. Whole Nice Yards (feat. Alias- Don Million)
14. Girl
15. Cinco de Mayo (intro)
16. Cinco de Mayo
17. J Dot
Virgin Music Canada 2002
Album: Two Hands Clapping.
Songs:
1. Black N' Snow
2. Stay Ballin
3. That's My Life
4. Missing You
5. Whass up
6. Pride(Interlude)
7. Legal (feat. Alex Jellee stone)
8. Missing You
9. Whisper of Truth
10. Mistaken Identity (feat Chris Black)
11. Lonely Song (feat. Alex Metcalf)
12. Biological (feat. Danny p.)
13. Whole Nice Yards (feat. Alias- Don Million)
14. Girl
15. Cinco de Mayo (intro)
16. Cinco de Mayo
17. J Dot
Virgin Music Canada 2002
Daoist quote of the day:
We are urged to be clever and successful and always in control .
But this practice asks us to relinquish the illusion of control and to be content and to be content with whatever comes our way.
But this practice asks us to relinquish the illusion of control and to be content and to be content with whatever comes our way.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
For some reason
Marxism has tended in practice to transmute into fervent nationalism.
David Boyle's comments on the Communist Manifesto.
David Boyle's comments on the Communist Manifesto.
Daoist Quote of the day:
Talking about a path
is not walking that path
Thinking about life
is not living.
is not walking that path
Thinking about life
is not living.
Currently Reading:
Morocco: Dream Destinations from 1001 Nights.
Actually I've only looked at the pics so far, this book is full of awesome images.
Actually I've only looked at the pics so far, this book is full of awesome images.
My favorite movies
My fave movies:
Picture Perfect:
Starring Jennifer Anniston and Kevin Bacon
Legend:
The Best of Bob Marley and the Wailers
Police Academy 3, Back in Training.
Ham and Cheese:
Dave Foley(Kids in Hall, Brain Candy etc....)
Scott Thompson(Kids in the Hall)
and a couple unknown actors that are hilarious in
this Canadian Comedy placed in Northern Ontario Canada
then in Toronto.
Picture Perfect:
Starring Jennifer Anniston and Kevin Bacon
Legend:
The Best of Bob Marley and the Wailers
Police Academy 3, Back in Training.
Ham and Cheese:
Dave Foley(Kids in Hall, Brain Candy etc....)
Scott Thompson(Kids in the Hall)
and a couple unknown actors that are hilarious in
this Canadian Comedy placed in Northern Ontario Canada
then in Toronto.
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